OUT Magazine honored

We want to congratulate our pals over at OUT Magazine. Under the helm of Editor-in-Chief Aaron Hicklin, OUT has really stepped up their game lately. And the ASME, the American Society of Magazine Editors, agrees. OUT is one of the finalists for this year’s National Magazine Awards. The issue being recognized is for the OUT 100. The portfolio of pictures were all shot for OUT (Cyndi Lauper is above). OUT did not use stock photos. The result was a first class issue. This is a great honor for OUT and their 100 honorees. Congrats!

Alphabeat, currently opening up for Lady Gaga in Europe, covered Telephone. And I think it’s better than Gaga’s original. Thoughts? -Bradford

We’re still giving away free fabulis T-shirts to anyone who makes a “What makes you fabulis?” video. See above. We’re also randomly selecting two people to win iPhones in the month of April. All you need to do is make a video.

Make a video. Get a free fabulis shirt ($18 value). And enter a chance to win an iPhone. Easy, right? And if your more a voyeur and less an actor please check out fabulis.com. Videos appear every day.

Just gay!

Sean Hayes finally took an interview with The Advocate. And finally came out of the closet. Thoughts?

Meet Kii Arens

Kii Arens is amazing. We just got these posters at fabulis headquarters. Yes, Liza, Gaga, and Grace. Nice.

Kii is working on a super-secret project for us at fabulis which will be launching in our shop in the next month. Three gay icons, one amazing artist, and a limited edition, fabulis poster series. We can hardly wait.

Grab Our Gear

Last month we made some T-shirts. People loved them. We made more. And designed hoodies and undies. And people loved them as much as we do. And people wanted to buy them.

So we designed some more. Picked the colors. And the first round of fabulis gear was born. Please take a look around our shop. Buy something for your friend or for yourself. Show the world you’re fabulis. We already know you are, but it’s still worth showing off.

And today through Sunday only we’re giving 15% off to our Facebook fans. Learn more about that offer on our Facebook page.

Hello. Bradford here. Fearless leader, Jason Goldberg, chatted with me in front of the camera about current fabulis news and a few things we’re launching in the near future.

The Online Gay Male in 2010, a fabulis.com survey

During the last week of February, 2010, fabulis sent out a survey to gay men regarding their online behaviors and attitudes.  Remarkably, more than 1400 people responded.

This presentation summarizes the findings.  You can download the presentation for yourself.  Feel free to use it, but please attribute fabulis as the source.

The Online Gay Male in 2010, a fabulis.com survey

Amongst the findings:

  • 40% of gay men claim to currently be in a relationship
  • More than 80% label themselves as “very gay”
  • 4 out of 10 use an iPhone
  • Nearly 7 out of 10 use an iPhone, Blackberry or Android device
  • Nearly 10% already use an Android device
  • Facebook dominates the gay man’s media consumption.  
    • 90% use Facebook at least weekly
    • 53% claim to be “addicted” to Facebook and use it several times daily
  • More than 30% use Facebook, Twitter, iPhone, Bravo, Logo, and Craigslist regularly (weekly)
  • 20% use Manhunt weekly
  • 20% use Grindr monthly
  • More than 60% have never used Trip Advisor, Gowalla, Gay Rometo, Here TV, Yelp, Foursquare, Gaydar, Grindr, Android.
  • 90% have never tried the new location based Services, Foursquare and Gowalla.
  • Facebook and iPhone users are the most satisfied
  • MySpace users are the most dissatisfied
  • More than 50% of users of Gaydar, GayRomeo, Trip Advisor, Grindr, Foursquare, MySpace, Gay.com, Manhunt, Here TV, and Gowalla are less than satisfied.
  • More than 50% have never heard of Towleroad, Queerty, Ameriblog, Digg, and the Huffington Post.
  • Meanwhile, Facebook it the top preference for news source on gay topics.
  • 97% are interested in a new social network for gay men
    • 70% are highly interested
    • 25% want it right now
  • 90% are interested in a new location-based mobile network for gay men
    • 45% highly interested
    • 13% want it right now
  • 90% are interested in better sources for news about gay topics
  • 70% interested in new websites that enable them to better meet other gay men for friendships
  • 6 out of 10 have none to limited interest in websites and services for hookups
  • A clear picture of the needs of gay men becomes evident
    • Gay men need better ways to make friends and discover places to go & things to do.
      • Nearly 8 out of 10 in need of better ways to meet people for friendship
      • Nearly 8 out of 10 in need of better ways to discover things to do tonight or this weekend
      • Nearly 8 out of 10 in need of better ways to discover gay friendly places to go
      • 8 out of 10 in need of better gay-recommended places to go
      • 7 out of 10 in need of better travel recommendations from other gay men
    • Gay men are less interested in more hookup services.
      • Only 4 out of 10 looking for better ways to find hookups
  • More than 70% of gay men interested in better ways to buy unique gifts for their friends.
  • More than 65% interested in paying for access to exclusive one-of-a-kind merchandise like designer clothing and artwork.
  • More than 60% looking for better ways to book gay travel.

Every day is fabulis: Day 1

Ryan Nicholas wrote this: “This precious baby girl is my something FABULIS. Each and every day that she wakes up with a smile and says, ‘good morning daddy,’ my heart melts.” We agree. She’s cute and fabulis.

About Every day is fabulis: Upload a picture each day of something fabulis in your life on Facebook. Describe what makes it fabulis. And each day we reward our favorite submission with FREE fabulis gear.

Upload Your Photos Now: Every day is fabulis!

Every day we uncover fabulis things: that perfect burger, an amazing book, an incredible cocktail, a picturesque sunset, a moving film, a great night out with friends, a new gadget. Gay men know how to spot fabulis things while celebrating their lives no matter where they are.

These experiences, and the sharing of them, will be a core feature of fabulis.

So, let’s get going.  We’d like you to start sharing the everyday fabulis things in your life.

Starting today, please post a single image each day onto our Facebook wall of something fabulis you encountered during your day.

Each day, we will feature some of these everyday fabulis things on this blog.  If your submission makes it onto the blog you’ll win some free fabulis gear.

It’s easy and fabulis.

  1. Take a picture of something fabulis each day.
  2. Write a little blurb and post it on our wall.
  3. Repeat and submit daily.  Each day you submit you are eligible for some free fabulis gear.

Share the fabulis things in your life. And welcome to the community. We’re all fabulis. Everyday.

(Btw:  The picture above is of me this past weekend at the fabulis Fairmont hotel in Mont Tremblant, Canada, where I was snowboarding with my boyfriend and friends.)

fabulis & The Twitterverse vs. Citibank: A Case Study on the Power of Social Media to Change Corporations

Who would have thunk it?

When we took to our blog last Wednesday night to expose the fact that Citibank had blocked our bank account and marked it for termination due to “objectionable” content on our site, we had no idea where this story would go.

As we know now, it went very far.  The story was picked up everywhere.

But the icing on the cake didn’t happen until over this weekend.

On Friday evening we finally learned what actually happened!  It turns out that a compliance officer at Citibank did a review of the fabulis website and blog and marked it as porn!

Porn?

Say what?  I challenge anyone to review our content and find anything there that could be reasonably labeled as porn.

You can’t.

It was clearly a mistake on the bank’s part — one which highlights the prevailing subtle forms of homophobia and/or lack of understanding we see periodically from some big corporations.  Someone there made a misguided decision in reviewing our content and the systems and policies of the bank allowed it to go through.

But the best part of this whole story came over this past weekend when we got word by email that Citibank has gone ahead and updated/revised its policies for internet businesses due to the fabulis affair.  The following policy update was posted this weekend on Citibank’s website.


Citibank Message About Internet Business Accounts

At Citibank, we have learned a great deal from recent customer issues related to Internet business accounts. Mistakes were made in some instances, in which we apologized and corrected the problem. These issues made it clear to us that the language in our branch procedures was not specific enough and left too much room for interpretation from one account to the next.

We recognized that we needed clearer and less subjective guidelines with regard to opening Internet business accounts.  And there were clearly gaps in training and communications around these specific branch procedures. Based on all these learnings, we’ve taken action and this week we updated and clarified our procedures for opening all Internet business accounts.

Banks are required by law to conduct due diligence and understand the nature of business accounts.  For Internet business accounts, we have made it clearer to our bankers what the due diligence process entails.  For example, we will continue to reserve the right to decline or suspend an account if we find illegal or discriminatory content, or if the site involves gambling or pornography.  Beyond that specific due diligence, however, we do not monitor or evaluate our customers’ web content.

We are providing additional training in this area to ensure the procedures are uniformly and correctly followed.  Also, our bankers are now required to have additional consultation with senior level banking executives when questions arise about these accounts before making any final decisions.  This will help to avoid misunderstanding and subjective decisions, and promote greater consistency throughout the process.  And we remain committed to working with our customers to try to resolve any issues.

As a global organization, we also recognize the power and promise of diversity.  In that spirit, we reiterate Citi’s commitment to serving customers, hiring talent and supporting a broad array of organizations that promote diversity. To learn more about our diversity efforts, please visit: http://www.citigroup.com/citi/citizen/diversity/index.htm.

These recent customer issues have been a useful learning experience for us.  We again apologize for any misunderstandings that may have occurred. We are committed to improving every day and we’re working to better serve our customers.

Bravo Citibank.  You are now entering the modern era.  Let’s see how you live up to it.

Let me close this chapter by saying that this whole episode wasn’t about fabulis, it’s about the power of social media.  fabulis was just the product.  Social media was the platform. Thousands of tweets and voices of outcry got Citi to change its policies in less than 72 hours.  Think about that.  The Obama Administration can’t get the banks to change, but we can!

p.s. If anyone in Congress needs some help with financial regulatory reform, give us at fabulis a call.  We seem to have figured out how to get banks to change their ways.

I just want to get married…it’s as simple as that. I love someone. I want to get married. My state is supposed to protect me. It’s not supposed to discriminate against me.

fabulis phone

fabulis phone

fabulis manicure

fabulis manicure

fabulis fridge

fabulis fridge

fabulis clothes

fabulis clothes

fabulis snow

fabulis snow

fabulis and strange

fabulis and strange

fabulis swimming

fabulis swimming

fabulis post-its

fabulis post-its

fabulis food

fabulis food

and the fabulis winner!

and the fabulis winner!

We asked our fans to write fabulis down. Anywhere. And to then snap some pics, all within 2 hours. We got a lot of responses. These are ten of them. The winner, the last photo here, took many shots and made a great graphic image using food, collage, drawings, and symbols. Thanks!

fabulis gets back to being fabulis

Jason here.

Enough of the citi.  Today, it’s all about fabulis (isn’t it always?!!!)

Back on the important stuff:

Today at fabulis:

  • Our development team shipped a new internal release of our iphone application.  It’s getting closer and closer to being ready for real users to try it.
  • Over on our facebook fan page, Bradford asked people to share their coming out stories.  The responses are simply awesome and inspiring.

  • Speaking of our facebook fan page, we now have more than 4000 fans and there’s a really active fabulis community interacting over there.  It’s fabulis. We love you.

  • Even more people submitted “why I am fabulis” videos on fabulis.com.

  • We are giving away a fabulis hoodie today! Want to win? Do this: Write fabulis in a very creative place. Your forehead?  Your bedroom wall? In ketchup? Snap a picture of it. Email the pic to info@fabulis.com. We’ll post our favorites on the blog. And one lucky person will get a hoodie. You have until 3PM Eastern time. Good luck!